Domestic Violence Awareness Month
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time dedicated to shedding light on the issue of domestic violence and the steps we can take to prevent it.
This month, on our social media, we are focusing on several signs to be aware of...
Emotional abuse — Are you feeling unhappy about the way a family member or partner is treating you? Are they criticising you and making you feel bad about yourself?
Economical abuse — Have you lost control of your money and access to finances? Is a partner or family member taking your money without permission or making you feel like you can’t say no?
Using your care needs against you — Do you feel a family member or partner is exaggerating your care needs or using them as an excuse to control what you do, eat or where you go?
Blaming and making excuses — Is a family member or partner making excuses for treating you badly or blaming you for their behaviour?
Controlling behaviour — Is a partner or family member stopping you from trying new things, learning new skills, or doing the things you enjoy?
Isolation — Is a partner or family member stopping you from seeing other people or spoiling the time you do have with family and friends? They may be checking your messages or constantly checking where you are.
Intimidation — Is a family member or partner being angry, aggressive and violent towards you or the people you care about?
Maybe the behaviour just started or recently got worse, even if it’s always been like this it doesn’t mean it’s ok.
Essex Compass can offer help and advice. Call 0330 333 7 444 or visit their website for assistance. You are not alone.
If you are living in an abusive relationship and want help, or if you are concerned about a loved one, please check out our website for news on how South Essex Homes can help and for contact details of other organisations that can offer support and advice.